Hanoi [Vietnam], April 25: As a guest on 'Sisters Untangling Problems', Phuong Trinh Jolie expressed her views on marriage through stories submitted by two viewers to the program.
Episode 17 of "Sisters Untangling Problems " - themed " Lost Direction " - features guest Phương Trinh Jolie . She and a psychology expert offer candid perspectives and viewpoints on married life.
During the program, an audience member revealed that she had been married since 2015 and had two children, but her marriage was constantly fraught with conflict. Despite her family's advice to leave, she refused to divorce. Feeling distressed, she confided in a male friend and developed feelings for him, leaving her confused and unsure of what to do.
After listening to the story, MC Phuong Uyen commented: "The story is very contradictory and complicated." Sharing her thoughts on the situation, singer Phuong Trinh Jolie frankly said: "The story is more dramatic than a movie. She got married, has two children, and suffered domestic violence for 9 years. Women are often vulnerable, and meeting someone new is like finding a cure. But the biggest problem is that she has children. From a humanitarian standpoint, it's not easy to leave, but her current way of life is also very difficult to accept."
Meanwhile, MC Phuong Uyen added: "I'm a little confused that she just stays silent and continues living with her husband." A psychologist analyzed: "The story is actually very simple; it's just that the people involved are too confused. The important thing is that she must determine whether she wants to take responsibility for her life or not. This marriage has had problems for a long time; the male friend is just like a painkiller, not a cure. The root cause is still an unhealthy marriage. She needs to answer whether she should stop or continue, instead of remaining silent forever."
Meanwhile, another viewer recounted how, after many years of marriage, she discovered her husband was having an affair. When she found out, she told her family, but the two continued their relationship. What caused her the most pain was having to choose between her husband and her family. Even worse, her husband didn't have a stable job or money, while the other woman was a recent graduate.
Phuong Trinh Jolie's perspective
In response to this situation, singer Phuong Trinh Jolie commented: "Those who cheat are still unfaithful. They are very difficult to change. You said you don't want a divorce, but I still advise you to get one." Adding to this point, MC Phuong Uyen said: "I see many men who continue their affairs simply because they already have someone, without any remorse. But what I wonder is why you still care about the person who hurt you?"
A psychologist revealed: "The first time they hurt you, it might be their fault. But if it continues repeatedly, it's because you allowed it. These two will never regret their actions because you remained silent." When asked how she would handle the situation, singer Phuong Trinh Jolie firmly stated: "If it were me, I wouldn't accept it. A man who is dependent on me and lacks morals has no right to raise my children. I would divorce him , no further discussion."
Singer Phuong Trinh Jolie further advised her female audience: "You should be honest and responsible with your decisions. Every choice you make today will affect your present, your future, and even the innocent lives involved." Meanwhile, a psychologist shared: "Every family is different. But try to choose a path that helps you grow and improve, and keep striving forward."
Source: Thanh Nein Newspaper
